The Importance of Advocacy: I am our children’s keeper

Now, I attend school meetings with other parents just as my advocate did with me. I share vital information about changes in policies, help them to understand what their rights are and other key information. I even cry with them and provide a shoulder to lean on. Why? Because as parents, we are so emotionally involved with our child, it is often difficult to face the struggles or admit that our child needs assistance, especially when the feat seems impossible. The advocate is the champion who reminds everyone in the room that it is not only possible; there are protections for children with disabilities – and it is the right thing to do.

I never saw myself as a political person before I became a mother. Yes, I would vote, but did not give much thought to the “issues.” All of that changed, when my first child, Matt, was born. I follow issues, policies and laws for how this will impact not only my son, but all people with disabilities. There are many lawmakers in local, state and federal arenas who know my first name. Why? Because the legislative people making the decisions must understand their actions and how their decisions impact real people and families.

This is why advocacy is my passion. I believe that it is important to protect the rights of people with disabilities. My experiences caused me to want to assist and support other families. I want my voice to be the hope, support and encouragement for people with disabilities who receive support as well as for their families. I believe I am our children’s keeper. After all, someone shared their passion and gift of advocacy with me.

Jeanette’s Advocacy Tips:
Begin a notebook of all testing, applications and information related to child or family member. I still keep this information because there have been times I am asked: “When did your walk begin?” It is difficult to remember all the milestones after many years.

Become a member of local, state and national Arc. This gives you a voice in legislative rules, changes and laws that impacts your family. Publications, Action Alerts, Twitter and Facebook pages keep you informed on the latest resources, news and laws that may impact your family. Visit www.monarchnc.org or www.thearc.org for details.

Make sure to be on all waiting lists, resource lists or find opportunities that may benefit your family now or later. It is much easier to say that you are not interested if your name/slot comes up versus to need the resource and be told you are on waiting list.

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Pictured: Jeanette Wilhelm, who serves as quality management coordinator and advocate at Monarch, with son Matt.